...with apologies to Wally Lamb, whose book by the same title I haven't read - but my husband was reading it at around the same time I started this blog, and it seemed appropriate...

Friday, July 8, 2011

And we're off!

We're starting a slow descent as we near Seattle.  The spectacular scenery reminds me how beautiful the western part of the United States is, and how we need to travel out here with the kids someday.  So far, the traveling has been easy, Tom and I have been able to catch a few much-needed winks, and I'm trying to get used to *not* having kids tagging along - at least for the next couple of days.  (The benefits of this became delightfully clear to me at the Atlanta airport, where we breezed through security without a stitch of baby gear to collapse and cram into the X-ray machine, and when I ordered lunch in less than one minute without consulting anyone and didn't care a whit whether there was any fruit included with said lunch.)

It was hard to leave the boys, though.  Very, very hard.  A few tears were shed as our plane departed Atlanta.  Hopefully the time will pass quickly for all of us, and I know the boys will have a great time with their grandparents.

Next post will be from China!

Friday, July 1, 2011

The Plan

We had a fun, informative conference call with our agency and travel group yesterday in order to go over our travel itinerary and resolve any last-minute questions.  Here's a brief summary of our trip...

July 9th - Meet up with our group in Beijing
July 10th - Fly to Zhengzhou late Sunday morning
July 11th - Go to the registration office and RECEIVE ELLIE on Monday afternoon; sign Guardianship Agreement
July 12th - Adoption registration in Zhengzhou
July 13th - Travel by car to Jiaozuo to complete notary paperwork;  possible visit to Ellie's orphanage
July 14th - Free time/optional tours
July 15th - Receive Ellie's Chinese passport;  depart Zhengzhou for Guangzhou (by air) Friday evening
July 16th - Go to the U.S. Consulate for Ellie's medical exam and visa photo;  meet with agency representative to complete paperwork in preparation for Monday's consulate appointment
July 17th - Free time
July 18th - Consulate appointment (to take the oath for Ellie's visa/citizenship)
July 19th - Receive Ellie's visa packet
July 20th - Depart Guangzhou for Shanghai (by air) Wednesday morning;  depart Shanghai for Atlanta at 3:45 PM local time;  arrive home a mere 3 hours later, at 6:45 PM on July 20th, EDT.  Undoubtedly those will be the longest "3 hours" of our lives.  :)

Sound busy?  It does to me, too.  And I'm still trying to figure out exactly how to pronounce "Jiaozuo".  But one thing I know for sure after last night's conference call:  Our agency is going to take VERY good care of us.  It's going to be a great adventure!   

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

This is a test...

Sharon Nix, Tom's wonderful assistant and a great friend to our family, has agreed to post our blog entries while we're in China.  Access to blogging is... shall we say... limited in China, but email is available.  So we will email Sharon our blog entries and pictures while we're traveling, and she will post them for us. 

Sharon wanted to do a practice post, so here's a recent photo of the boys just for fun.  :)

Monday, June 27, 2011

More great news from China!

Okay, how cute is THIS?


This picture was taken less than two weeks ago.  Ellie had her palate repaired on May 30th.  We weren't sure whether it would be done before we brought her home, but it's great to have that behind her and it should make the introduction of new foods a little easier.  She will almost certainly need more surgeries as she grows, but other than the possibility of ear tubes there shouldn't be anything in the immediate future now that her palate is repaired.  And what a smile!!!

Ellie's updated growth report states that she can walk, say "mama", and - perhaps most importantly - she can understand what is being said to her.  That is a huge relief, because hearing issues related to excess fluid are common among children with cleft palate who have not been evaluated for ear tubes.  Hopefully now that her palate is repaired she will have an easier time learning to say new words.  But the fact that her receptive language skills appear to be normal is excellent news.

Our agency is busy finalizing our travel plans.  We now have contact information for the families who are traveling with us, so I imagine over the next week or so there will be a flurry of emails as we begin getting to know each other.  We'll have a conference call later this week so that our agency can give advice about the trip and answer any questions we have.

We will probably meet Ellie two weeks from today!
   

Friday, June 24, 2011

I am not tech-savvy.

As you can probably tell from the very basic design of this blog.  But if you follow this link, you should be able to create a Google profile that will enable you to sign in and post comments.  I haven't noticed an increase in the amount of spam email I've received since creating my own Google profile. 

We will be updating our blog throughout our trip to China, and while we won't have access directly to the site to see your comments, we will receive email updates containing the text of your posts.  Which will be great, because we won't actually be able to see our blog so it will be good to know that what we're posting is somewhat coherent and at least mildly interesting, in spite of our jet lag.      

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Who says the U.S. government can't be efficient?

Okay, well, it's actually our agency that's super efficient - but the U.S. Consulate deserves some credit for confirming our appointment in less than a day!  We have a consulate appointment on July 18th - which means we will leave Atlanta around July 8th and can return on July 20th!  We haven't booked anything yet, but based on the timing it looks like we will be able to take advantage of the recently-reinstated, non-stop, Shanghai-to-Atlanta Delta flight for our trip home.  Hallelujah!  

We've had people ask why it takes about 2 weeks to complete the adoption trip.  Why can't we just pick up Ellie and come home?  Well, the adoption itself is completed in Ellie's home province, Henan.  Zhengzhou is the capital of Henan, and that is where we'll meet Ellie - but we need to begin our trip in Beijing, in order for our agency to accomodate flights from various places in the U.S.  Our stay in Zhengzhou involves receiving Ellie (an event often referred to as "Gotcha Day"), finalizing the adoption (could be the same day or the next day), then waiting for Ellie's passport to be ready.  All of that takes about a week.  Then we travel to Guangzhou, where Ellie will have a medical exam at the consulate, followed the next business day by our official "consulate appointment" (during which we will take the oath of citizenship on Ellie's behalf).  The next day, her visa will be ready.  We can fly home the day after we pick up Ellie's visa. 

 

It's official!

Our agency received our travel approval yesterday!  They have already requested our consulate appointment, according to the travel options we were given yesterday morning.  With that information sent, we should hear back from the consulate Monday or Tuesday of next week - at which point we'll know for sure when we're traveling and finally be able to book our flights.  We may be leaving two weeks from tomorrow, and meeting Ellie just a few days after that!

We also have a terrific opportunity to help the Hope Foundation, the charity that has cared for Ellie since last summer and provided her with expert surgical care and lots of TLC.  There is a woman named Rebecca who lives in Tennessee and is the U.S. contact for the Hope Foundation.  She has some medical supplies that need to be sent to China, and it is far more economical (and secure) to have travelers bring them over as baggage than to ship them.  So once we're certain of our travel plans, Rebecca will ship us a couple of suitcases full of much-needed medical supplies, and a Hope staff member will meet us at the airport in Beijing to pick them up and take them to the Hope Healing Home.  We wish we could visit the Healing Home in person, but since we are traveling with a group (and probably not spending that much time in Beijing), it seems unlikely that we'll be able to do that.  But we're very pleased to have a chance to help them in a tangible way.